Friday, May 27, 2011

What He said

The two of them stood swaying on the bus. I was lucky enough to hold a seat so I wouldn't be thrown about by the potholes that the driver went out of his way to hit. I couldn't help overhearing their conversation as I tried to look away.

One of the men was talking about his life. He spoke of betrayal by a friend, the loss of a relationship and the death of a parent.

“How you holding up, man?” the other asked.

By God’s grace,” was the reply.

Photo by JB London
I thought about this conversation all day and of my own life, filled with many of the same stories. My answer has always been a blur of excuse and blame. But I liked what he said.

By God’s grace.

It’s a word used too loosely. The church down on 13th has a sign, "Grace Lutheran Preschool.”
We’ve heard plenty of sermons on grace and some use it as on their signature block on e-mails. John and Sarah named their daughter Grace. I even saw a car with the bumper sticker “Grace Happens.”

But it’s just another word until you’ve lived it.

When one-by-one your friends leave you, for no other reason except your own actions, you have to cling to it. Because that’s all you have.

When your spouse walks out the door, disgust rising from her stomping shoes. And you know she’s right. You can only learn to breathe again by God’s grace.

When your boss slinks into your office on Friday morning with three pieces of paper and wishes you good luck, all you have right then is God’s grace.

When your excuses are stripped away and the spotlight of truth shines on you, there is no other place to run except to His Grace.

Yeah. What He said. 

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Also read Journey to Beloved today, "Droplets of Grace." It will blow you away.

20 comments so far - add yours here:

Megan Willome said...

Wow.

Karen Kyle Ericson said...

His grace and mercy never fail. None of us are truly worthy. Thanks for sharing.

Clint said...

The day I finally became a man and gave it all up to Him, by His grace my life turned around and I began to soar.

Bill (cycleguy) said...

Well timed post for me David. My wife's job runs out in a week and in a month so does our insurance. She has been told she is uninsurable. So it will have to be by God's grace. Unless you live it... Well said.

I am His Beloved said...

My favorite post you have ever written...its all about His grace. wow.

HisFireFly said...

Love this...

without grace, we have nothing, are nothing...

beautiful David.

Simply Darlene said...

Indeed. Yes, indeed.

I have heard grace defined as "undeserved favor from God." You have captured that meaning.

Blessings.

S. Etole said...

yes ... so much more than the folding of the hands ... so much

David Edmisten said...

Amen, David. When you've barely made it through the storms and are still somehow breathing, it is only by God's grace. I try to keep that firmly in the front of my mind in every new challenge.

Sheila said...

So I'm asking,
How is it that you turn one amazing post after another?

I needed to read this today, David. Thanks.

I'm wondering. When it's all sunshine and full bank accounts and robust health and puppies and fresh strawberries, is that not too His grace?

Lyla Lindquist said...

All, only, nothing else.

What a reminder. Sigh.

Thanks David, as always.

Anne Lang Bundy said...

His mercy--His grace--is new every morning. He doesn't give us more than a day's worth at once so we'll keep coming back, as we should.

Susan DiMickele said...

I have been there. It is a wonderful and terrifying place when we only have His Grace.

RaeAnn said...

Thank You! I agree that this is THE best post that you have written. I appreciate your thoughts.
Blessings

Patricia said...

Oh, a breathless 'Amen.'

Jo said...

Amen and Amen..

Shanda said...

But it’s just another word until you’ve lived it.
So true, I was always quick to tell people to rely on God's grace until I began going through extremely trying circumstances myself. I realized I have to come to a place where I know what it is to live by God's grace before I have the right to help others in that area.

Charity Singleton said...

This was beautiful, and painful. With grace there is always hope, though. I think you've captured that well here.

shrinkingthecamel.com said...

That slippery, lovely thing called grace - it is there when we least expect, but most need it.

Hope you had a great trip to NM.

Laura said...

Yeah, what he said. Beautiful, David.

"What makes our labor holy, what makes it eternal, is not just the work but the state of our hearts while performing that work. When we comprehend that truth, then we realize washing dishes is as significant to the Kingdom as operating on a patient; driving a truck is as eternally triumphant as leading a company. Then, even in the zig-zags of our careers, when life seems more random than ordered, when it feels like we're running in thick mud with heavy boots, we can rest in the knowledge we're serving God as we labor faithfully and diligently."

-- Randy Kilgore, Made to Matter